Don’t Try To Connect With The Audience

by | Aug 17, 2020 | Public Speaking | 20 comments


So many times, we have heard this whenever you’re on the stage, try to connect with the audience. 

Audience connection is the key in public speaking. 

Wait. 

Many times we have seen that people come on the stage and they fail to connect with the audience, you know why, because they are not connected with themselves. 

Are You Connected With Yourself?

What do I mean by that? 

Involuntary Hand Movement

Have you seen someone putting hands like this or in the pocket or playing with the coins in the pocket? 

When I ask, have you told your hand to do all this? They said, no. It means your hands are not connected. 

Involuntary Leg Movement

Have you seen people walking on the stage or moving the rhythmic movement when asked them, have you told your legs to walk like this to go back and forth? They say, no, it means your legs are not connected. 

Involuntary Eye Movement

Have you seen people are looking here and there and up and down and speaking, but audience is sitting in front of you.

Have you told your eyes to look up and down? No. Your eyes are not connected. 

Irregular Breathing

Have you seen people breathing like this? They’re out of breath on the stage, your lungs are not connected. 

You speak fast. Your tongue is not connected. 

Audience connection is secondary. You can able to connect. 

You will connect with the audience only when you are connected with yourself. 

So next time when you’re speaking on the stage, make sure you ask someone to observe or make videos. 

And after just watching it, whether your hands, your legs, your eyes, your speed, your breathing connected or not connected. 

Connect With Yourself to Connect With Audience

Because if these all things are connected, if you are connected with yourself, you will be connected with the audience. 

If you like this tip, do share with your family and friends and with everyone who wants to become a leader in life. 

Because if you want to become a leader, you have to separate yourself from the crowd, stand alone and speak. 

This is Praveen Wadalkar signing out until we meet again with a new tip.

20 Comments

  1. Aishwarya Bhosale

    Nice sir Article..I learn lots of things froM You

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback 🙂

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  2. C.Raghava Rao

    Concentrate on your content. What you want to deliver. concentrate on your movements. Audience came to listen you. They pay attention on you. You do your job. They will listen you.

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts 🙂

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  3. Shabbir Khan

    Very nice…and well explained..

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thanks for reading and sharing your appreciation 🙂

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  4. Birrendra

    Perfect..Once you are complete with your own self , you will get connected to your being and obviously than to the audience ..

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thanks for reading and sharing your views 🙂

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  5. Santhosh

    Simple,Sweet & Powerful tips.
    Thank you sir

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts:)

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  6. Kishor Gharate

    Good

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback 🙂

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  7. joise

    Good 👍

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback 🙂

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  8. Jayvant Harlikar

    These are really good tips to keep in mind. This helps to build confidence

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback:)

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  9. Satish Gujaran

    Great writeup. There is so much to learn from you. Thank you for sharing 🙏đŸģ

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback 🙂

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  10. Sagar Ghadge

    Thank you sir for this valuable tips. I am watching your videos from last 1 month and I really like the way you talk.

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    • Praveen Wadalkar

      Thank you for watching and sharing your feedback 🙂

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