Outside Mountains Vs Inside Mountains
Well, sometimes in your life, you don’t have to go on mountains to climb the mountain. I’m actually a certified Mountaineer, when I got my certificate from HMI, I was so happy. I thought now I could climb any mountain until someone redefined mountaineering for me.
That day, I was in storytelling, open mic in Mumbai, where storytellers were coming on the stage and they were giving their stories for five minutes.
“Touch Me Not” Girl
And one girl came, tall, beautiful, wearing a black color dress, looking very confident on the stage. Now she started a story. She said you know what? I’m a ‘touch me not’ girl; I don’t like people touching me. Even if my father touches me like this, I said, please don’t touch me. Even if a brother touches me like this, I said, please, please, please don’t touch me.
We all started looking at each other. What’s wrong with this girl? And then she said, “You know why?” Because when I was five years old, someone touched me, and I didn’t like it.
Not someone from my immediate family, but someone I know someone I trust, but then I decided not to share with anyone.
The ‘Inappropriate’ Touch
When I was 15 years old, someone again touched me, not from the immediate family, but again, someone I trust, someone I know. Well this time I decided not to share with anyone.
And over the years, now I’m 23 years old, all these memories, because of these memories, I’ve lost trust in people until I decided to start sharing this, sharing my story with the world. And the moment she said this, I remembered the words of one of my most favorite storytellers, Donald Davis. And in his Ted Talk, he said if something happens in your life, which you feel is tragic, which you hesitate to share. And if you decide not to share that with people, it will sit on your head like a mountain, forever. And if you decide not to share, the same thing will happen which happened with that girl; Because every time she remembers what happened with her when she was five or when she was 15, she feels the same amount of pain, again.
Climb That Mountain ‘Inside’
The only way is to crawl out, climb that mountain, sit on it, and share your story with the world. Because when you do that, you’re no longer below the mountain. You’re above the Mountain. But if we decide not to share, then you’re always sitting with that big mountain on your head.
Nothing will change your past by sharing your story fast will not change, but what will change is your relationship with the past. Now it’s no longer a mountain, rather you are telling the world what we have learned from it or what you can learn from it.
Lesson Learned From That Girl
Sometimes I feel that HMI has taught me how to climb mountains, which are outside and visible. But that girl taught me how to climb a mountain, which is inside and invisible.
Look into your life, look deep. Maybe there are some small or maybe big mountains, which you have not climbed. Crawl out. Climb that mountain, stand on it, and tell your story to the world.
Climbing Outside Mountains Are Optional. Climbing Inside Mountains Are Mandatory
It’s okay if you don’t climb that outside mountain, but it’s very important to climb the mountain, which is there over your head because no matter how strong you are, no one in the world can walk alone. Think about it.