I would love to have your perspective on this. Listen to this very carefully.
We Are All Locked Down
Under lockdown we all are spending a lot of time in the kitchen, correct?
Irrespective of gender.
Now I think the perspective of husbands and prospective wives will be different on this subject.
Let me give you this simple example and this simple example will help you, especially ladies to understand this very critical point, that how your husband looked towards this relationship called marriage. Imagine for a moment and I sure, I’m very sure that you will not struggle to imagine this, that your husband is washing utensils in the kitchen.
Husband Is Washing Dishes
Now, at that point of time, ask your husband, what do you think about this?
I’m giving you four options.
Listen to each option very carefully.
First, your husband says this. He says this, that you should be thankful to me and I’m doing a favor to you, maybe a little sugar coated word, but you should be thankful to me, he’s doing this as a favor to you.
Number two, he says that no, I want to help you, I can help you. This is my response. I just want to help you. I think if I help you, then there will be peace at home, but I strongly believe that in this kind of critical situation, I should help you. So, this is my help. So not no favor. He’s not considering this as a favor, helping, helping you.
Third, your husband says this, no, it’s not help. It’s not favor. It’s my responsibility. It’s my responsibility. Especially when this kind of critical situation, it’s my responsibility to share the work so that pressure, workload is not on your head. So, I take that as a responsibility.
Correct? Favor, help, responsibility.
Fourth option, your husband looks towards you and says this, what, what are you asking? I was washing utensils, what do I think about this? Nothing because I believe at home work should not be assigned gender the way you wash you wash utensils, even I can wash utensils. There’s nothing gender specific at home because we are a family.
Whats Your Perspective?
Now what I want to know from gentlemen first. Can you tell me, honestly? Imagine if your wife is really asking this question to you, what’s the real answer in your mind. Be honest and ladies, it doesn’t matter what your husband is answering. Tell me what you wish to hear from your husband, if you’re asking this question to your husband out of these four options.